I AM the work
If you’ve read my memoirs Hammer, Sickle & Broom or Fragile Freedom, you’ll know I’ve experienced a fair share of trauma in this lifetime.
For years, I tried to heal it. I went to therapy, read the books, did the work. But progress was painfully slow — like walking through molasses.
Then in 2009, something shifted. I began attending Family Constellation workshops regularly, and they started to reveal something deeper: many of the challenges I was facing weren’t just mine. They were echoes, passed down through my ancestral line. Invisible threads tying me to generations before me.
A year later, in 2010, I went to a two-hour talk by Brandon Bays, the creator of The Journey Method. I don’t remember everything she said, but one sentence pierced through the fog:
“Your trauma doesn’t just live in your mind — it’s lodged in your cells and your DNA.”
Something in me knew that was true. I signed up to train with her, and for the next three years, I followed her to every event — until my baby boy was born.
But that one moment — hearing that trauma lives in our DNA — changed the course of my healing journey.
I began to look at my lineage. And I started to see it — clear patterns, uncanny repetitions, emotional imprints that weren’t mine alone.
I love my family. But the truth is, there’s a lot of dysfunction. And as I began to look closer, I saw how their pain lived in me:
My grandfather was imprisoned in his 20s. I found myself imprisoned in an abusive relationship, literally locked up for two years.
My grandmother lost her mother when she was ten. When I was ten, my mother remarried and left the country.
Both of my great-grandparents were revolutionaries. So were my parents. I’ve been terrified of revolutions… and yet, the healing work I do now is revolutionary.
And the echoes haven’t stopped with me. I see them even in my own children.
When my son arrived, I quadrupled my efforts to heal my lineage, because I decided that that trauma stops with me.
That’s when things began to move — fast. Doors opened. Miracles happened. Freedom became real.
This is why I don’t just teach intergenerational trauma healing.
I embody it.
The body of work I have created is not theoretical. It’s my lived experience.
I am the work — and I know, deep in my bones, what becomes possible when you heal the legacy you inherited.
And I want that for you, too.
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I hope you'll say 'yes' to this life-changing opportunity.
Warmest wishes
Gulara