My secret sauce that keeps me oversubscribed
I had a few conversations in the past few weeks where people spontaneously commented on my growth as a business owner. They were asking what is the magic ingredient that has created this shift, so I thought I’d share in a post.
I don’t know when you have entered my world but I can guarantee that in the time that you’ve known me, I’ve grown every single day. What you see today is a cumulative effect of years and years of inner work.
There’s no magic wand when it comes to growth. The magic can happen spontaneously because healing is not linear and you never know how or when the cumulative effect of what you do can translate into your day-to-day life, but for me personally, this journey has been about consistency and willingness to keep showing up and healing my wounded parts. My business an extension of me and, therefore, any patterns that block me in my daily life are bound to impact my ability to expand and receive in my business.
So what happens when you heal your wounded parts?
To me, it boils down to one word: presence.
My sense is this is why I consistently get feedback from my clients with three key words: I feel safe, seen and heard. Here’s a handful of examples:
Gulara is like a wise wise oracle, who you feel instantly at ease with. When you speak to her you feel deeply heard, seen and understood. I wouldn’t hesitate for a moment to recommend Gulara. She’s literally amazing!!
—Anonymous in England, UK
Gulara is highly skilled and can hold a tender and strong space for a person to truly witness themselves. I felt safe, loved and seen. Her skills were masterful in releasing me from something that has plagued me for a lifetime. Much love!
—Tina F. in USA
Gulara delivered a very high quality session as I had expected. Not forcing anything and very tuned in to what was needed. Very well adjusted to me and my current capacities. She is so caring, respectful, gentle and good. Very gifted and intuitive, finding new pathways and gems that were hidden. I felt safe to be myself with her and that is rare for me. It’s a pleasure receiving a session from her.
—Tom D. in Belgium
Everyone can be present, but what can get in the way of your presence is your wounded parts that obscure the truth of who you are. They create energetic distortions that make you hide or play small.
The more you can heal those parts, the more your presence can shine through. Ultimately, people are drawn to your energy and presence, and not necessarily what you share on socials. Yes, showing up in your business is important, but what energy you put out is crucial. Even when you take all the right action, if there’s something in your energy field that pushes people away, you won’t get the results that you want.
Let’s say, you show up on social media, write blog posts, do podcasts and share your message in whatever way feels right for you, but deep down you fear on taking people’s stuff, worry about burn out, don’t want to feel responsible for anyone, dread people’s criticism or judgments, etc. people will look away, even if you’re right in front of them. This split in your energy tells them that you’re not entirely at ease and in integrity with what you offer.
This is exactly why I have created a unique opportunity for you to dive deep and not only heal the wounds that get in the way of you shining in the world, but also learn how to be grounded in your body and connect with your family and clients from presence.
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This a comprehensive framework to keep you on track towards your specific goal. It includes a special goal setting process developed by one of my teachers (Edward Mannix), 4 themed group coaching calls, 4 masterclasses and 5 week ‘Good Enough’ course. I hope that you join us live.