When visibility feels safe
It’s been nearly five years since I last experimented with Facebook ads. My first attempt was so disappointing that it put me off advertising altogether. I decided I would only grow my community organically—and I didn’t consider any other alternatives for a long time.
But after healing my visibility fears, I had to admit: the problem wasn’t the strategy. It was the unconscious fear stuck in my system.
So, I’m running some Facebook ads again (warm welcome to those who’ve joined me recently).
This time, it feels completely different. My system is calm and regulated. There’s no charge, no pressure, no desperate need for results—just curiosity and a sense of groundedness.
That’s the difference healing makes: it transforms not only what you do, but how you feel while doing it.
This is why I love the work I do now—helping healers and practitioners gently release the hidden blocks that make visibility feel unsafe. Because when those threads untangle, everything softens. The push, the strain, the mask—all of it falls away. And when it does, people don’t just see you—they feel you.
If you’re ready to experience this shift, join my free webinar, The Visibility Blueprint for Healers, on 11 September, 2–3pm London time / 9–10am EST.
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