Healing the root of rejection

If you find it hard to handle a client’s “no,” it may go deeper than you think.

Rejection can imprint before you even have conscious memories. For example, if your mother wasn’t ready when she discovered she was pregnant — maybe she was too young, too old, had suffered miscarriages, or had too many kids already — that initial “I don’t want this” can be deeply felt by the unborn child.

Even if you were loved and welcomed later, that early imprint can linger.

When you imprint rejection, you may learn to reject yourself first — to soften the blow.

Thoughts like:

“No one will book with me.”

“I can’t charge that — who would pay me?”

“Why bother creating a course. I know they won’t turn up. It would be just a waste of my energy.”

These aren’t just doubts. They’re self-protection — from disappointment, from pain.

But here’s the thing: self-rejection doesn’t protect you. It hurts — and it shows.

When you turn against yourself, others often (unconsciously) follow suit.

The fear of rejection doesn’t just block your success — it can spiral into anxiety, addictive patterns, shame, holding back, and even anger.

In my online practitioner training, we go  deep into these issues and explore core patterns like:

- Rejection in the womb

- Ancestral stories of failure

- Childhood stories of not being good enough.

This work creates lasting transformation — helping you step into your power and show up as a confident, successful healer who delivers life-changing results for their clients.

We are starting next week! This is your final call to join us.

When you join the practitioner training this week, you'll get free access to my live 5-week Unlock Unlimited Love & Money course + a library of resources worth £2500. These bonus resources will support you in healing blocks to love & money at ancestral, karmic and parental levels.

Join my practitioner training Level 1 now: www.gularavincent.co.uk/practitioner-training 

P.S. My new 5-day immersion on Healing the Roots of Over-giving and Undercharging is on sale for £27. We often over-give and undercharge out of fear of rejection. Underneath this behaviour there's a deep sense of unworthiness. And it's not just yours. It often has roots in your family history. Come and join us - I know you'll get a lot out of this experience. Here's the link: https://gulara-vincent.mykajabi.com/offers/Az5kEzR4/checkout

Warmest wishes 

Gulara