Hi, I’m Gulara, your relationship and trauma healing coach.

I'm here to help you finally truly heal from what's really causing your relationship to split apart. I hold deep safe space for you to release pain and trauma that affects your intimate relationships.

Using a unique blend of cutting-edge energy healing methods, I support you in transforming your personal life, so that you can live up to your full potential at home and at work. I’m a certified Compassion Key, Non-Personal Awareness, Identity-oriented Psychotrauma Therapy, Spiritual Acceleration practitioner and Reiki Master.

I can help you to feel in control of your emotions and your life. 

Whether true happiness lies in discovering the love that flows between you or by setting each other free to find that true love with another person, I am here to help you.

Random things about me

  • I live in rural Dartmoor national park in South England with my two young children and the love of my life.

  • I’m the author of international bestseller Hammer, Sickle & Broom: A Memoir of Intergenerational Trauma in Azerbaijan.

  • I passed my PhD in Law without a single correction in 2010. My examiner was Professor Paul Craig, the God of EU law at the University of Oxford.

  • I taught law for 19 years first in Azerbaijan and then at the University of Birmingham in the UK. I still teach, but I’ve changed the subject and the classroom.

  • English is my 4th language. I learnt it reading Agatha Christie’s mystery novels with an aid of a small dictionary.

  • I come from a small city in Azerbaijan. I moved to England when I was 30.

  • I’ve given birth to two beautiful children (both arrived via emergency C-section).

  • I’ve never met my dad. I was brought up by my maternal grandparents.

    You can read my childhood story here

  • I love dancing and people who know me well say that I have a wicked sense of humour

  • Everything I teach comes from my lived experience. When it comes to healing, I walk my talk.

Together we’ll find you that deeper connection you’ve been looking for!

Here is what my clients say:

“I knew Gulara was the right person to help me with the nagging and persistent problem I have had with a relationship that had deep dark ties that felt I needed to break in order for me and the other person to heal. After just one session, I am definitely on the road to healing (after 11 years of being dysfunctionally tied to this person) – I no longer fear that my detaching from him will cause him to destroy himself and therefore cause me even more grief and sadness. I thought that I was in an impossible situation but Gulara’s gifts and insight and kind and gentle compassionate healing work resulted in immediate shifts that I can only label as miraculous.”

- L.C. in Tempe, AZ USA

 

“I’m always amazed at how intune Gulara is to my inner most thoughts. Gulara somehow reaches in and finds the deep rooted subconscious patterns that have kept me from understanding the significance of the event and kept me from healing. I love that I understand now that the promises I made to myself in the past in order to survive are curses in my present life. I appreciate her loving and patient approach to my healing and would highly recommend her to anyone who wants to resolve the past and heal the present.”

- Sue s. in Kalamazoo MI


“Gulara has a gift to penetrate through the symptoms to the core issue. Deep wounds are revealed and healed that have been skipped over or only superficially addressed. This is deep and rewarding work.

I highly recommend Gulara to get to the bottom of an issue and clear it. Such clearing helps you, your relationships and the planet.”

- Sandra B. in Antioch, CA

 

“Wow. What a profound experience. I wish everyone in the world could have a session with Gulara. There is so much healing and lightness and peace available on the other side of our pain, and Gulara is such an expertly adept, insightful and wise guide through this process. I’m so deeply grateful. Thank you.”

- Vanessa E. in Los Angeles, CA